Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Charles Stallybrass with the following comment:
I am trying to research my husband's family - I know that there are mentions of Stallybrasses in Ipswich but this is the first concrete lead I've found! I'd be really grateful for a copy. I'd love to help on this project but my time is terribly limited and I don't like to let people down by making a commitment I'm unable to honour. However if you would like copies of gravestone photos I already have I'd be glad to mail you a CD!